Archive for January 28, 2008

Language? Timing?

After long marathon nights of determination, I manage to catch the whole straight 6 seasons of Sex and the City! I love this show it really mirror our life. How we have been struggling for late 20s to early 30s to find our true love, the one, the white prince and even to the stage of setting up a family! It sure do come with lots of laughter, pains and tears, thats what I call real life show.

Especially the relationship between Carrie and Mr Big, certain parts it really do reflect on my relationship with Mr Its Ok! Mr Its Ok is my long distance relationship, we fell in love when he was here in Singapore. When he went back to France (where he belongs to), we didnt really swore to keep on this relationship instead we encouraged one another to go on with our lives with someone. He did and I did. Guess what, his relationship didnt went on long and so did mine.  Why? Why cant move our lives on and let go of this relationship we have? I guess the answer is simple, we are too in love with each other and the guilt start to kick in us if we are with someone.

So back to Carrie and Mr Big. Eventually Carrie was trying to forget Mr Big and she fell in love with Alex an artist who is a russian and opening up art gallery in Paris. Carrie felt that Alex is the one for her and she is willing to fly over Paris to be with him. Sad to say not knowing the language is a minus point, she felt alone with no familiar people, she felt outcast when Alex is with his friends. She tried her best to blend in with them, but is just too hard for her, she sat there quietly!  At this part, it make me realise why Mr its Ok doesnt want me to go there when he is working, he is afraid I might not feel good to be there!  But will it be really that tough to blend into a country where you do not know their language well? Is it really that tough? I wonder! Maybe it is . There is always this saying, if you are in love, nothing can stop you! Is that true?

Well at the end, Carrie and Mr Big finally gave up and surrender their love to each other. Isnt that sweet? I wonder when will be mind? When will Mr its Ok finally open up his and let me come in?